From:
leetahsar
11:44
To:
God's Ultimate Weapon (QuanHuang) unread
2009 of 2009
83628.2009 in reply to 83628.2007
huang, comparing my old man with urs....who has done greater evil?
i never hated my lauhankoo...just feel sad that at his advanced age, he is still so attached to lust and pleasure of the flesh..and dying everyday for teetujuices....
LUSTS IS VERY DESTRUCTIVE...and people also has reason to cover it up...so that they feel less guilty...and think it's ok to lust after more teetus....so be it....let them one day be poisoned into a slow death by all the toxic teetujuices...they sowed the cause...be prepared for the everlasting suffering effect of HELL!
ornitoufo....;9)
Monday, July 03, 2006
readers' responses to this story....
From:
ÎÚÅ« (KUNTAKINTE)
3-Jul 23:27
To:
leetahsar
2001 of 2009
Uncle Lee,
Aiyo.... I can not believe that such explanation was given by your da shi xiong or chen ge !! Wah lan ooi.... I really can't believe it and can't tahan it anymore !!
What right has chen ge to say that sbk is a cancer tumor ? What right has he got to ask ccg to cut off the tumor ? What right has he got to ask her to forget about sbk and no point to be upset by sbk ??
sbk has gone astray, he has been misled either by his own moment of weakness or weakness in desire. Every one of us, unless one is inhumane, suffer from moment of weakness at certain point of our life. Unfortunately, no one and not even our good friends would be able to knock any sense into us. We just need time to realize our own mistakes. When will sbk wake up ? Beats me !! He would one day, but when ? No one knows....... In Buddhism, sbk has to go through this ordeal and karma has a lot to do with it. If you are really his friend, you should stay by his side, "chant" his wrongdoings and knock him out of his senses. sbk could have lied to you and make up stories to gain your support.... but, have you spare him a thought ? HE IS BLOODY LONELY NOW !!! DESPITE THE FACT THAT HE HAD TTJ TO FUCK, BUT, INSIDE HIM, HE IS HOLLOW, HE IS AT A LOSS !!
Please, Uncle Lee, please do not quick to conclude your findings and hasten to write the conclusions, and sentence sbk to hell. Everyone of us do not deserve hell, Kitigaharba Bodhisatva promises that he would be the last one in hell . . . . .
Amitabha Buddha . . . . .
From:
leetahsar
3-Jul 23:41
To:
ÎÚÅ« (KUNTAKINTE)
2002 of 2009
a letter was posted here...but he warned me to delete it...and still dun want to admit his mistake..he had been cheating the wifey from day one...and for 7 yrs already...
mislead???...no...lonely?...NO...happy like a fuck..he's free..he can drink from any teetujuices now....so be it...let him be poisoned by one one of this day...it will be his karma then...
god bless him!
From:
¼ÍÏþá° (jixiaolan)
3-Jul 23:42
To:
ÎÚÅ« (KUNTAKINTE)
2003 of 2009
Errr....excuse me but he has to write his script according to the directive of his aussie payer.
From:
leetahsar
3-Jul 23:47
To:
¼ÍÏþá° (jixiaolan)
2004 of 2009
aiyah...no one pays me lah...the one who came and told me interested in my stories...just a smoke in the air...here today...supped..and gone tmr...
lucky din conned my money...so in a way lucky lor....guess me got to go fishing again....
Ô¸ÕßÉϹ³¡£¡£¡£¡£haahaa...so be it...;9)
the story is real life happening...i ve terminated my sad and disappointed acquaintance with sbk...and even now his father ah lau pleaded with me not to give up on him...
sorry...he as a father is out of his wits...me as a kelefe...no way i can help him...when he doesn't want to help himself..a.nd still thinking it's other's faults...
GOD BLESS HIM>...;9(
From:
ÎÚÅ« (KUNTAKINTE)
00:00
To:
leetahsar
2005 of 2009
Amitabha Buddha,
Om Mani Padme Hum
From:
leetahsar
00:21
To:
ÎÚÅ« (KUNTAKINTE) unread
2006 of 2009
thanks...appreciate u can help me do a chant of enlightenment on my wayward brother sbk.....thanks again...
ornitoufo.....;9)
ÎÚÅ« (KUNTAKINTE)
3-Jul 23:27
To:
leetahsar
2001 of 2009
Uncle Lee,
Aiyo.... I can not believe that such explanation was given by your da shi xiong or chen ge !! Wah lan ooi.... I really can't believe it and can't tahan it anymore !!
What right has chen ge to say that sbk is a cancer tumor ? What right has he got to ask ccg to cut off the tumor ? What right has he got to ask her to forget about sbk and no point to be upset by sbk ??
sbk has gone astray, he has been misled either by his own moment of weakness or weakness in desire. Every one of us, unless one is inhumane, suffer from moment of weakness at certain point of our life. Unfortunately, no one and not even our good friends would be able to knock any sense into us. We just need time to realize our own mistakes. When will sbk wake up ? Beats me !! He would one day, but when ? No one knows....... In Buddhism, sbk has to go through this ordeal and karma has a lot to do with it. If you are really his friend, you should stay by his side, "chant" his wrongdoings and knock him out of his senses. sbk could have lied to you and make up stories to gain your support.... but, have you spare him a thought ? HE IS BLOODY LONELY NOW !!! DESPITE THE FACT THAT HE HAD TTJ TO FUCK, BUT, INSIDE HIM, HE IS HOLLOW, HE IS AT A LOSS !!
Please, Uncle Lee, please do not quick to conclude your findings and hasten to write the conclusions, and sentence sbk to hell. Everyone of us do not deserve hell, Kitigaharba Bodhisatva promises that he would be the last one in hell . . . . .
Amitabha Buddha . . . . .
From:
leetahsar
3-Jul 23:41
To:
ÎÚÅ« (KUNTAKINTE)
2002 of 2009
a letter was posted here...but he warned me to delete it...and still dun want to admit his mistake..he had been cheating the wifey from day one...and for 7 yrs already...
mislead???...no...lonely?...NO...happy like a fuck..he's free..he can drink from any teetujuices now....so be it...let him be poisoned by one one of this day...it will be his karma then...
god bless him!
From:
¼ÍÏþá° (jixiaolan)
3-Jul 23:42
To:
ÎÚÅ« (KUNTAKINTE)
2003 of 2009
Errr....excuse me but he has to write his script according to the directive of his aussie payer.
From:
leetahsar
3-Jul 23:47
To:
¼ÍÏþá° (jixiaolan)
2004 of 2009
aiyah...no one pays me lah...the one who came and told me interested in my stories...just a smoke in the air...here today...supped..and gone tmr...
lucky din conned my money...so in a way lucky lor....guess me got to go fishing again....
Ô¸ÕßÉϹ³¡£¡£¡£¡£haahaa...so be it...;9)
the story is real life happening...i ve terminated my sad and disappointed acquaintance with sbk...and even now his father ah lau pleaded with me not to give up on him...
sorry...he as a father is out of his wits...me as a kelefe...no way i can help him...when he doesn't want to help himself..a.nd still thinking it's other's faults...
GOD BLESS HIM>...;9(
From:
ÎÚÅ« (KUNTAKINTE)
00:00
To:
leetahsar
2005 of 2009
Amitabha Buddha,
Om Mani Padme Hum
From:
leetahsar
00:21
To:
ÎÚÅ« (KUNTAKINTE) unread
2006 of 2009
thanks...appreciate u can help me do a chant of enlightenment on my wayward brother sbk.....thanks again...
ornitoufo.....;9)
compass rose is now called EQUINOX..70TH RAFFLES CITY HOTEL
before i went for my EQUINOX HIGH TEA with my gof pal...me had to go for this one...cos need to settle with him all my monthly visa billings...but he so kind to treat me HIGH TEA there..he got the RAFFLES CLUB...so it's actually one paying..one free..haahaa...;9).....see how cleber this gof is!
before i left the house, ah lau called. "tahsar, are u reading to makan with me...?
oh great!...i told couldn't cos in another half an hour me meeting my gof pal for high tea the top of raffles city hotel.
he started asking about his son, sbk. i was rather pissed off...i gave me a piece of my mind....how the hell i know??!!...he 's the father not me!...if he dunno..how the hell i know??!!
but actually i knew everything liao....
ah lau told me he felt very sad the way sbk's rascal behaviour and he had written a letter to be faxed to ccg to apologise for his son obscence behaviour...ER...THE SINS OF THE SON FALLS ON THE FATHER???
so i bluntly told ..yes u do that!...then i added surely U DON'T WANT UR DAUGHTER TO MARRY SUCH A GUY RIGHT?
and if he's ur son, then ur daughter in law is somebody's daughter too...and what right does ur son keeps hurting somebody else's daughter...and his marriage pledge about how lucky he marries this wife...well...all bullshit!!!
ah lau said, "aiyah...ah sar...u must help him lah..u r his big brother what?"
"help what?" me was really fuming liao..."i can only help if he wants to help himself..if doesn't want, what can i do?...he infact is enjoying the bliss his wife left..so how to help now???...u tell me lor..."
SO U TELL ME LOR...HOW TO HELP ONE WHO STILL THINKS HE RIGHT TO DO ALL THOSE BO LIAO THINGS..HOW TO HELP AN IGNORANT FOOL WHO THINK HE'S DOING THE RIGHT THING?
HOW TO HELP AN IDIOT WHEN AN IDIOT DOESN'T WANT TO HELP HIMSELF??
U TELL ME PLEASE....;9(
before i left the house, ah lau called. "tahsar, are u reading to makan with me...?
oh great!...i told couldn't cos in another half an hour me meeting my gof pal for high tea the top of raffles city hotel.
he started asking about his son, sbk. i was rather pissed off...i gave me a piece of my mind....how the hell i know??!!...he 's the father not me!...if he dunno..how the hell i know??!!
but actually i knew everything liao....
ah lau told me he felt very sad the way sbk's rascal behaviour and he had written a letter to be faxed to ccg to apologise for his son obscence behaviour...ER...THE SINS OF THE SON FALLS ON THE FATHER???
so i bluntly told ..yes u do that!...then i added surely U DON'T WANT UR DAUGHTER TO MARRY SUCH A GUY RIGHT?
and if he's ur son, then ur daughter in law is somebody's daughter too...and what right does ur son keeps hurting somebody else's daughter...and his marriage pledge about how lucky he marries this wife...well...all bullshit!!!
ah lau said, "aiyah...ah sar...u must help him lah..u r his big brother what?"
"help what?" me was really fuming liao..."i can only help if he wants to help himself..if doesn't want, what can i do?...he infact is enjoying the bliss his wife left..so how to help now???...u tell me lor..."
SO U TELL ME LOR...HOW TO HELP ONE WHO STILL THINKS HE RIGHT TO DO ALL THOSE BO LIAO THINGS..HOW TO HELP AN IGNORANT FOOL WHO THINK HE'S DOING THE RIGHT THING?
HOW TO HELP AN IDIOT WHEN AN IDIOT DOESN'T WANT TO HELP HIMSELF??
U TELL ME PLEASE....;9(
..THE SILENT WEEPY WIFEY
waited and waited for ah lau to called me for lunch...no phone rang....
then it rang...oh great!...god of fortune pal called me for EQUINOX HIGH TEA....now i was in a fix...wait for lau han or go for 3pm high tea at the top of raffles city?
ok...of course high tea with gof...cos i knew i won't need to pay. if with lau han, maybe i gotta end up paying...and me quite broke...yesterday already paid for chinjiagong lunch and taxi fare....:(
yes...yesterday....i haven't contnued what happened during our meeting.....
suppose to meet chinjiagong at toa payoh hdb hub for lunch. she wanted to explain to me exactly what was going on between she and sbk....
she drove there. after parking, we met and headed to PISSoff HUT...cos there no business....so quiet to talk....
me was hungry so i ordered most of the items on special offered there...as we ate, chinjiagong shoved me the letter and ttj's pic (deleted cos sbk read it here..and demanded it be deleted...or else....)
me was shocked. my eyes almost popped out...i couldn't believe what i read..and that ttj. she was the low hipster lady (like not wearing any undies) whom sbk had brought me to meet her before...
and that romantic flirtatious love letter...oh my god!...if i were to be a girl...i would surely strip and asked him for his hound...haahaa...;9)
it was suddenly cleared to me. all this while, sbk painted a fantastic illusively wrong picture about ccg and smoked me...so that i was like dun quite approved and like her...her attitude ...her behaviour...and her bitchiness...
BUT NO!...this wasn't really the case. it was the reversed.....i should have known it when i was delivering with sbk. he was already flirting with new girls...even got a blue tooth to convenient his flirtings while he drove his lorry.....
and he seem to enjoy it...:(
so now...it was all clear to me..and ccg broke down and cried openly....i told her maybe we should be going to my temple. dai shi heng was waiting there for us...
and the stupid mini couldn't start....kong off again! so we took a cab to the temple.
dai shi heng was about to leave. on seeing us, he welcomed us and three of us sat down. chen ge started his counselling session...WOW!...REALLY ADMIRED HIM FOR HIS SUPER INSIGHT!
the way he explained using the prajaparamita heart sutra was out of this world...how i wish i could have expressed so eloquently and effectively like him....
his final verdict on the whole thing....
sbk was like a very playful cat. he loved catching mouse. but when he caught one. he didn't eat it. he played with it until it was half dead. then he discard and target another poor mouse.
the half dead mouse is chinjiagong...the next target mouse would be ttj.....
he advised ccg to let free this hopeless heartless guy....no point crying, breaking heart...or even die for him...he wouldn't be sad...on contrary he would be too glad. then he would be free "to catch the next mouse to play with".
sbk was like a cancerous tumour. he only brought pain and suffering cos he was such a person so deep in lust...and greed of pleasure....he could do that to his current wife...he could do that to the next woman or even the next wife....
so the advice was: cut off the tumour. discard. pain for a while better than pain forever...free oneself for the suffering. why attached to it?
our parents give us life and would be sad if we are suffering...and not living happily....would u want ur children to suffer...would u want ur married daughter to be crying and sad everyday over some romeo jerk?
NO!...time to cut and discard...dun adhere to the suffering...discard the tumour once and for all!
well, my power preaching chen ge...I SALUTE U!!
and as ccg was listening and nodding...she was weeping bitterly...and in no time...she used up the whole roll of toilet paper i passed it to her...and need to get another...:(
and i so pai seh....chen ge admired my kaypohness...FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE...I WAS APPRECIATED FOR MY KAYPOHING!!
he said tahsar was like a bodhisttava...he brought u to me...and u came...if u din meet tahsar...u still dunno how or what to do by wallowing silently in ur suffering...
and if today's counselling...u felt better...it wasn't me to have help u...it was tarshar's credit...cos he brought u here to our temple...and coincidentally u met me....
he was about to leave the temple...i called him...and "booked" him to wait for a while on the way to see him...with a girl pal...and there...the destiny was created....
so now ccg was much stronger and more decisive and knew what the next step to take....she would be voluteering her service to our temple next week.
we are having a incantation to chant for the deads...7th MONTH...THE MONTH OF THE HUNGRY GHOSTS BEGINS...u know...
so u r welcomed to join us...every sunday 3pm...chen ge would preach...and his preaching is very dynamic and powerful...better than any pastor i know...and practical cos it's buddhism..and straight away u can relate it to ur daily happening or mishappening....
join us....sometime got free makan...that was what attracted this greedy piggy in the first place...haahaa...;9)
and now ...i will ornitoufo to chinchiagong...hope she has enlightened...and felt light...
and a multi ornitoufos to sibeikang...my ignorant and foolishly lost brother who still refuses to admit multitasking timings is a big sin...and he like still very defiant and proud of it...
AND SO BE IT....LET HIM GO TASTE THE RETRIBULATION OF HIS SINS...HIS EVILS...AND HIS KARMIC BAD EFFECT...it will be sooner than he thinks...
ornitoufo...sbk...if u r reading this...NO ONE IS SADDER THAN ME NOW....ornitoufo to u...
this is the last time u will be meeting...talking...and even scolding me...for the things i have done to u...and for ur still ignorant and greedy lusty mind....MAY THE LIGHT OF THE MERCIFUL BUDDHA AWAKENs ALL UR SINS...AND MAKE U REPENT..REGRET...AND RECTIFY...
THIS IS THE ONLY WAY U CAN WIN BACK UR WIFEY AND SON....ornitoufo to u....
our story would have to end here...cos from here one...i wanna to be out of the couple clashes liao....
the end of story....(for the time being)...
comments?
then it rang...oh great!...god of fortune pal called me for EQUINOX HIGH TEA....now i was in a fix...wait for lau han or go for 3pm high tea at the top of raffles city?
ok...of course high tea with gof...cos i knew i won't need to pay. if with lau han, maybe i gotta end up paying...and me quite broke...yesterday already paid for chinjiagong lunch and taxi fare....:(
yes...yesterday....i haven't contnued what happened during our meeting.....
suppose to meet chinjiagong at toa payoh hdb hub for lunch. she wanted to explain to me exactly what was going on between she and sbk....
she drove there. after parking, we met and headed to PISSoff HUT...cos there no business....so quiet to talk....
me was hungry so i ordered most of the items on special offered there...as we ate, chinjiagong shoved me the letter and ttj's pic (deleted cos sbk read it here..and demanded it be deleted...or else....)
me was shocked. my eyes almost popped out...i couldn't believe what i read..and that ttj. she was the low hipster lady (like not wearing any undies) whom sbk had brought me to meet her before...
and that romantic flirtatious love letter...oh my god!...if i were to be a girl...i would surely strip and asked him for his hound...haahaa...;9)
it was suddenly cleared to me. all this while, sbk painted a fantastic illusively wrong picture about ccg and smoked me...so that i was like dun quite approved and like her...her attitude ...her behaviour...and her bitchiness...
BUT NO!...this wasn't really the case. it was the reversed.....i should have known it when i was delivering with sbk. he was already flirting with new girls...even got a blue tooth to convenient his flirtings while he drove his lorry.....
and he seem to enjoy it...:(
so now...it was all clear to me..and ccg broke down and cried openly....i told her maybe we should be going to my temple. dai shi heng was waiting there for us...
and the stupid mini couldn't start....kong off again! so we took a cab to the temple.
dai shi heng was about to leave. on seeing us, he welcomed us and three of us sat down. chen ge started his counselling session...WOW!...REALLY ADMIRED HIM FOR HIS SUPER INSIGHT!
the way he explained using the prajaparamita heart sutra was out of this world...how i wish i could have expressed so eloquently and effectively like him....
his final verdict on the whole thing....
sbk was like a very playful cat. he loved catching mouse. but when he caught one. he didn't eat it. he played with it until it was half dead. then he discard and target another poor mouse.
the half dead mouse is chinjiagong...the next target mouse would be ttj.....
he advised ccg to let free this hopeless heartless guy....no point crying, breaking heart...or even die for him...he wouldn't be sad...on contrary he would be too glad. then he would be free "to catch the next mouse to play with".
sbk was like a cancerous tumour. he only brought pain and suffering cos he was such a person so deep in lust...and greed of pleasure....he could do that to his current wife...he could do that to the next woman or even the next wife....
so the advice was: cut off the tumour. discard. pain for a while better than pain forever...free oneself for the suffering. why attached to it?
our parents give us life and would be sad if we are suffering...and not living happily....would u want ur children to suffer...would u want ur married daughter to be crying and sad everyday over some romeo jerk?
NO!...time to cut and discard...dun adhere to the suffering...discard the tumour once and for all!
well, my power preaching chen ge...I SALUTE U!!
and as ccg was listening and nodding...she was weeping bitterly...and in no time...she used up the whole roll of toilet paper i passed it to her...and need to get another...:(
and i so pai seh....chen ge admired my kaypohness...FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE...I WAS APPRECIATED FOR MY KAYPOHING!!
he said tahsar was like a bodhisttava...he brought u to me...and u came...if u din meet tahsar...u still dunno how or what to do by wallowing silently in ur suffering...
and if today's counselling...u felt better...it wasn't me to have help u...it was tarshar's credit...cos he brought u here to our temple...and coincidentally u met me....
he was about to leave the temple...i called him...and "booked" him to wait for a while on the way to see him...with a girl pal...and there...the destiny was created....
so now ccg was much stronger and more decisive and knew what the next step to take....she would be voluteering her service to our temple next week.
we are having a incantation to chant for the deads...7th MONTH...THE MONTH OF THE HUNGRY GHOSTS BEGINS...u know...
so u r welcomed to join us...every sunday 3pm...chen ge would preach...and his preaching is very dynamic and powerful...better than any pastor i know...and practical cos it's buddhism..and straight away u can relate it to ur daily happening or mishappening....
join us....sometime got free makan...that was what attracted this greedy piggy in the first place...haahaa...;9)
and now ...i will ornitoufo to chinchiagong...hope she has enlightened...and felt light...
and a multi ornitoufos to sibeikang...my ignorant and foolishly lost brother who still refuses to admit multitasking timings is a big sin...and he like still very defiant and proud of it...
AND SO BE IT....LET HIM GO TASTE THE RETRIBULATION OF HIS SINS...HIS EVILS...AND HIS KARMIC BAD EFFECT...it will be sooner than he thinks...
ornitoufo...sbk...if u r reading this...NO ONE IS SADDER THAN ME NOW....ornitoufo to u...
this is the last time u will be meeting...talking...and even scolding me...for the things i have done to u...and for ur still ignorant and greedy lusty mind....MAY THE LIGHT OF THE MERCIFUL BUDDHA AWAKENs ALL UR SINS...AND MAKE U REPENT..REGRET...AND RECTIFY...
THIS IS THE ONLY WAY U CAN WIN BACK UR WIFEY AND SON....ornitoufo to u....
our story would have to end here...cos from here one...i wanna to be out of the couple clashes liao....
the end of story....(for the time being)...
comments?
THE FINAL ODYSSEY OF SIBEIKANG - THE SILENT WEEPY WIFEY
"WHAT THE FUCK! why u dated my wifey yesterday?....what happen to my lau pok kai mini?" an angry rant rang out from my receiver.
yes. u guessed it! it's sibeikang....
2 days ago, saturday, his old man called me and talked to me for so long....pleading me to help reconcile the couple. he already missed his grandson sisuagong. chinjiagong already packed everything and left with son to his father's place.
and the old man called...and the old man called again..and the old man......and i beh tahan...i realised must be real serious...THEN HOW CUM SIBEIKANG COULD STILL TELL ME "EVERYTHING'S OK...WHY U THINK THERE'S SOMETHING WRONG BETWEEN US?"
yes. there was really BIG SOMETHING WRONG.....
all my kaypoh bugs told me called the wifey to find out which i did ...and my god!...i realised all this while i had been conned by sbk to believe it was the fault of the wifey...
i even started a thread to tell people to be careful...u know...SWEET DR JEKYLL AND HIDEOUS MRS HYDE.....pai seh...this goon was being abused and misused!...ketok..and cheated...conned and smoked...by someone jerk who did so much wrong...and still got the audacity to bad smeared his wife...tsk..tsk!...really really bad BAD BOY, sbk!!....
IF U R READING THIS...i hv to tell u....my destiny with u is ending soon....god bless u!...keep doing what u like...keep hurting another girl...another someone's beloved daughter...and soon u will have all the ill effect returning to u...in multiple folds and with all the interests accrued!...ornitoufo...i surrendered my fatih and trust in u....u go face ur karma now..the day i am out of ur picture.....;9(
i still worry for u...my encounter with u and ur tribe to enlighten u all..and hope make u more humane and grasp ur compassion...is a total failure! :(....u have morphed into someone more evil our of my estimation...GOOD LUCK...AND GOOD BYE FOR NOW!....sorry...no more free timsum from now on..no more free coolie and free filipino maid services from me any more...i know i was exploited...abused and misused...but my intention was to let u see ur evil..which u refused to acknowledge...and continue to create more evil...sowing more suffering seeds....
ur wifey suffers...ur son suffers.....ur mum suffers.....ur old man suffers.....ur brother sibeipine suffers....and NOW I SUFFER FOR NOTHING!...guan wo pi si!!
let this be my last warning to u...WHATEVER UR ACTION U DO,....AND U SOW THE SEEDS OF EVIL INSTEAD OF THE SEED OF COMPASSION...THE EFFECT WILL BEFALL ON UR INNOCENT CUTE CUTE SON....
THE SINS OF THE FATHER FALL ON THE SON...u urself was always telling me this...
good luck..and good bye sibeikang....i really do hope u could grasp ur inner compassion too...until that day...i will still be chanting for u...for u to discard all ur lusty ignorances and attachment......bye...
sorry...for getting too personal....i sensed he was reading this too....and this morning...i was cursed and yelled at for nothing...
it shows only a fool still attachment to his ignorance...and stupidly thinking he is still doing the right thing...and so be ti!
he will face his own consequences now...i have done my part as a concerned brother...i have failed miserably! :(....and ornitoufo to him....
let me washed up my teary face...before i continue...sorry....;9(
.....to be cont'd
THE SUFFERING WIFE IN SILENCE
me and my tua kaypoh!!..
yes..the story continues...it's now the weeping wifey's turn...
me meeting her..and bringing her to my temple and hope she could find some solace there...and maybe an answer with her settled heart and tranquil mind when she has achieved that...
so wish me luck...I M OFF NOT TO MEET HER....and yes..her side of the story will continue...i think it's going to be a yee lai chan's melodrama sob soap drama...haahaa...;9)
stay tuned!
THE SUFFERING WIFE IN SILENCE.......;9)
From:
ÎÚÅ« (KUNTAKINTE)
3-Jul 02:02
To:
leetahsar
1986 of 2009
83628.1986 in reply to 83628.1985
Bro,
Read your story about your soon to divorce friend and his wifey ordeal.
In my life, I try to help people of all sorts. When it comes to family matters, I usually take a step back. Be it husband and wife, parents and children, brothers vs sisters, brothers vs brothers, sisters vs sisters, and etc, I will try not to interfere.
Why ? HOW COULD I ?? They have been living together more than me !! They know their shortcomings and worst, they have their hidden secrets or their dark sides that they would not want to reveal.
In your case of your friend, be it teetujias and what not, the husband must be prepared to face the consequences, so do the wife !!
I have seen cases where these china mei meis fend pregnancy to get moronic Sporn men to marry them. These moronic Sporn men believe them without 2nd thoughts...... Yes, to me, they are moronic but how could they be so blinded ? It is because of their choice..... like in Buddhist teaching, every incident, every phenonmenon, there are consequences and choices. One has to decide because every decision will bring about positive and negative effects and results. The worst can happen is that the individual does not have the "wisdom" to choose and decide.
With reference to your friend. He could possibly be looking at the comfort and availabilities at hand. Possibly, he did not delve into the consequences when all dust settle. Is he prepared for it ? Another thing, he could be living for the day and tomorrow is just another day . . . . .
How could you help ? Definitely not as a "go-in-between" to sort things out because they have their own dark sides or linens which you may not know. Yes, you may say that they have none, but, how do you know ? You can help them to get some insights which is not exactly enlightenment . . . . . but near to it. In every situation, we achieve greatness when we are able to rationalize it and achieve positive outcome. Because, because, in every situation, it is a test for the individual. When I accidentally fractured my leg, it is a test for me to see how I could get myself out of the situation to be a better person. When I broke off with my long time gf, it is a test for me to see how much I treasure the one I loved and how much she treasured me in return. When we did not work out, it could simply mean that we did not have any treasures between 2 of us despite having many memorable moments together. We could have sparks here and there, on and off. But, we were not burning !! We do not have that burning desire to be together, burning feelings that bind us, that burning needs to have each other.... we were treating each other like social escorts.... it was bound to fail but, we did not see it. We were blinded.......
yes..the story continues...it's now the weeping wifey's turn...
me meeting her..and bringing her to my temple and hope she could find some solace there...and maybe an answer with her settled heart and tranquil mind when she has achieved that...
so wish me luck...I M OFF NOT TO MEET HER....and yes..her side of the story will continue...i think it's going to be a yee lai chan's melodrama sob soap drama...haahaa...;9)
stay tuned!
THE SUFFERING WIFE IN SILENCE.......;9)
From:
ÎÚÅ« (KUNTAKINTE)
3-Jul 02:02
To:
leetahsar
1986 of 2009
83628.1986 in reply to 83628.1985
Bro,
Read your story about your soon to divorce friend and his wifey ordeal.
In my life, I try to help people of all sorts. When it comes to family matters, I usually take a step back. Be it husband and wife, parents and children, brothers vs sisters, brothers vs brothers, sisters vs sisters, and etc, I will try not to interfere.
Why ? HOW COULD I ?? They have been living together more than me !! They know their shortcomings and worst, they have their hidden secrets or their dark sides that they would not want to reveal.
In your case of your friend, be it teetujias and what not, the husband must be prepared to face the consequences, so do the wife !!
I have seen cases where these china mei meis fend pregnancy to get moronic Sporn men to marry them. These moronic Sporn men believe them without 2nd thoughts...... Yes, to me, they are moronic but how could they be so blinded ? It is because of their choice..... like in Buddhist teaching, every incident, every phenonmenon, there are consequences and choices. One has to decide because every decision will bring about positive and negative effects and results. The worst can happen is that the individual does not have the "wisdom" to choose and decide.
With reference to your friend. He could possibly be looking at the comfort and availabilities at hand. Possibly, he did not delve into the consequences when all dust settle. Is he prepared for it ? Another thing, he could be living for the day and tomorrow is just another day . . . . .
How could you help ? Definitely not as a "go-in-between" to sort things out because they have their own dark sides or linens which you may not know. Yes, you may say that they have none, but, how do you know ? You can help them to get some insights which is not exactly enlightenment . . . . . but near to it. In every situation, we achieve greatness when we are able to rationalize it and achieve positive outcome. Because, because, in every situation, it is a test for the individual. When I accidentally fractured my leg, it is a test for me to see how I could get myself out of the situation to be a better person. When I broke off with my long time gf, it is a test for me to see how much I treasure the one I loved and how much she treasured me in return. When we did not work out, it could simply mean that we did not have any treasures between 2 of us despite having many memorable moments together. We could have sparks here and there, on and off. But, we were not burning !! We do not have that burning desire to be together, burning feelings that bind us, that burning needs to have each other.... we were treating each other like social escorts.... it was bound to fail but, we did not see it. We were blinded.......
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